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While some Latinas her age try to
emulate the tight clothes and wiggling hips of stars like Jennifer Lopez and
Christina Aguilera, Ms. Pinet and others are adopting
a more conservative lifestyle and converting to Islam. At this
Many of the
Other Latina Muslims say they also like
the religion's emphasis on fidelity to one's spouse and family.
But for many family members and friends,
these conversions come as a surprise - often an unwelcome one. They may know
little of Islam other than what they have heard of the Taliban and other
extremist groups.
That creates an inaccurate image,
insists Leila Ahmed, a professor of women's studies and religion at
New views of women and Islam may be more
prevalent in countries like the
"I think the women here are
asserting more their rights and their privileges," says Zahid Bukhari, director of the
American-Muslim Studies Program at
Some Latina Muslims say they harbored stereotypes about Muslim women before deciding to
convert, but changed their minds once becoming close friends with a Muslim.
"I always thought, geez, I feel sorry for women who have to wear those
veils," says Pinet. Then she met her Muslim
boyfriend and began studying the Koran with a group of Muslim women. She says
she was impressed with the respect they received.
"A women
is respected because she is the mother, she takes care of the children, and
she's the one that enforces the rules," Pinet
says. "They're the ones who are sacred."
Critics of the decisions of Latinas to
convert to Islam say they are adopting a religion just as patriarchical
as the Roman Catholic faith that many are leaving behind.
"While it's
true the Latino culture tends to be more male-dominated, and there's a tendency
toward more machismo, I would venture to say it exists [in Islam] as
well," says Edwin Hernandez, director of the Center for the Study of
Latino Religion at the University of Notre Dame.
Latinos account for six percent of the
20,000 Muslim conversions in the
"At first it was anger and then
more like sadness," Nylka Vargas says of her
parents' reaction when she told them she was converting to Islam and began
dressing more conservatively. "They would sometimes feel strange being
around me."
Pinet's
family has been more accepting, but she too has encountered some resistance in
her community. It's as if you've betrayed your own kind," she says.
For some, the cultural differences are
the most trying.
"I can't eat pork, I can't wear
[form- fitting] clothing, I can't dance in the clubs, I'm not gonna attend church," says Ms. Yanez,
who is of Cuban and Spanish descent. "But I keep my language, and there's still things that we do as Latinos that they don't
have to change."
Within the Islamic community, Latina
Muslims report being warmly received, although language barriers sometimes
exist for Latinas who only speak Spanish. There are few Spanish services at
mosques and a limited number of Islamic texts in Spanish.
Grassroots organizations specifically
for Latino Muslims have been created in recent years. They function in part as
an informational resource for new converts and but also as a support group for
those who encounter difficulties at home.
Ultimately, Latina Muslims say that time
heals the divisions and angst their conversion sometimes causes among friends
and family.
"What I had to learn was
patience," says Vargas, whose family came to accept her religious beliefs
after several years. "Sometimes things are not as we want them."